A BUG and WISH

This was a new strategy to me, a more simple way to share a "heart talk" or "I-message."  Say, 

"It bugs me when  _____.  I wish _____."

You don't have to clarify the feeling.  It is a good way to get started on a difficult conversation.  

Share the bug.  Share the wish.  

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